Questions and Reflections
Responding to and dealing with...
Responding to and dealing with bad news is never an easy task. The fact is, when receiving the bad news, we are sitting in the bottom of a valley where fog is distorting our vision.... More »
A good dose of BALANCE,...
A good dose of BALANCE, by pointing out that it existis and exploiting the Postive to counteract the bad. Pointing out there is no idylic experience and that there are still gooid lessons even in... More »
Do only the best that...
Do only the best that you can everyday. Good God, I'm sorry for what you are going through, but it's not my sympathy you need. Strength to move on must come from inside and it's... More »
In my experience, all you...
In my experience, all you can do is be there. Show up. Let the details take care of themselves. Be completely there. There is no formula to follow beyond that.
Providing counseling and support to...
Providing counseling and support to cancer patients gives me a lot of practice. I think one of the main positions I find myself in is normalizing those overwhelming feelings and giving permission to go ahead... More »
Close your eyes, ten deep...
Close your eyes, ten deep breaths...this is within the realm that you know within, you have the power and strength to deal with what the universe is presenting to you right now. It's all there... More »
By always looking on the...
By always looking on the bright side. For example when someone has died I always tell the loved ones to remember that now the person is in much better of a position to help guide... More »
I would say that there...
I would say that there are two graphs of change happening in the world - there is a downward graph of devolution, of destruction, of despair, and it is rapidly getting worse and worse....but at... More »
Well, the first thing...
Well, the first thing that comes to mind is this scene from Airplane ... Listen, you have two choices: tune out and be miserable, or continue to learn and grow. I have close... More »
The real work comes in...
The real work comes in appreciating others and finding something to admire. Someone told me recently feeling overwhelmed can be helped. I think people are disappointed with failures. I think we really love... More »






