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Trapper John
I suppose when my ego is attacked. Whenever someone seems to be challenging my view of myself, I want to defend, to expain that they are not seeing it right, that I am NOT that... More »
Amber
I get extremely defensive when people tell me I can't do something. When I find something that I am truly passionate about or find something that I really want to do I can not stand... More »
Bahamut
I get defensive when somebody talks bad about actions. I like to live life by my actions, and I like people to judge me by them. If somebody doesn't like my actions, I have no problem if... More »
Nena
I think i tend to get really defensive when people judge or make fun of others. I especially get defensive when it is someone that is ill or has special needs. Its very unfortunate to... More »
Esse
I feel defensive when someone attacks me or my friends and family. I'm really defensive about my boyfriend though because....well, it's not really anyone's concern [unless I make it so] as to who is making... More »
Blick
I feel defensive when people start to put down minorities. I'm somewhat part of one, being Jewish, but I'm not uber-Jewish as to recite the Torah from memory. So I'm on the outskirts. But that... More »
Roku
I guess I get the most defensive when people feel the need to swear at me and insult me. After defending my words I pretty much shut them out, because it is obvious they are... More »
Leyna
When people make remarks about my musical preferences. I'm of the opinion that everyone should be allowed to like anything they want - music, art, books, movies, etc - without being judged by other people... More »
LeisureGoddess
When I'm arguing for my limitations, or when I'd rather be right than happy. In other words when I am far, far away from who I really am.
quietlaughter
I am never defensive, what do you mean? *blinks* what are you trying to say? *pulls herself up straight* Say whatever you want about people - whoever they are - I don't care, I... More »
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