What does it take for someone to earn your trust?
It takes a long time...
It takes a long time for someone to earn my trust. I need to get to know that person well and keep my eyes and ears out for any sign of...lies (for lack of a... More »
Reliability..consistency...being truthful/real...sticking to plans/commitments...limiting white...
Reliability..consistency...being truthful/real...sticking to plans/commitments...limiting white lies...trusting me...sharing with me...and essentially being who that person claims to be.
For me it takes my...
For me it takes my ability to Love them more & thus judge them less. Love is Trust. Trust does not mean believe or do as they say thou. Your ability to trust another is... More »
I guess I'm not very...
I guess I'm not very opened-armed when it comes to trusting someone. I like to let everyone else interact with that person first (if there are other people around) before I make up an opinion... More »
Its a formula which includes...
Its a formula which includes some intuitiveness which I can't totally explain. I can give some level of trust with or without the intuitiveness but my trust becomes limited at that point.
That's something I try to...
That's something I try to figure out myself right now, so let's see what my answer is. Actually I see two different kinds of trust. There is the trust that somebody respects my needs. Usually... More »
Trust is freely given...you don't...
Trust is freely given...you don't have to earn trust with me, unless you destroy my trust - then it has to be rebuilt. I know this attitude of being open to all will get me... More »
Consistency. ( which is why...
Consistency. ( which is why trust is a time / experience based measure )
be upfront. do not hold...
be upfront. do not hold anything back. that is the only way i'll know how real you are.
Growing up, I always shielded...
Growing up, I always shielded myself from pain. Afraid of getting hurt, it takes a lot for me to really trust someone and share my secrets with another person. For me, in order for someone... More »






